- Jun 5, 2025
How to Know If You’re Living Someone Else’s Dream
- Iris Irving
- The Repositioned Life™ Series
- 0 comments
You can follow all the right steps and still feel out of place in your life. That doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful. It might mean you’re living someone else’s dream.
Alignment starts when you stop performing and start telling the truth.
The Signs You’re Not Living Your Own Vision
You chose a path based on safety, approval, or tradition.
You feel disconnected from your accomplishments.
You keep asking, "Whose life is this, really?"
You’re not lost. You’re waking up.
Why This Happens (And Why You’re Not Alone)
So many of us were taught to succeed by fitting in, not by listening within.
We inherited:
Career paths
Cultural expectations
Definitions of success
But you can unlearn someone else’s blueprint—and build your own.
What Reclaiming Your Life Actually Looks Like
Letting go of titles or roles that no longer fit
Redefining success around your energy, not just your income
Creating space to explore what you actually want
It takes courage to choose yourself. But peace lives on the other side.
Testimonial: "Once I admitted I was living out my parents' version of success, everything shifted. I left my job, moved abroad, and started creating work that feels like mine."
— Julian, repositioned from finance to creative strategy + remote life
If you're ready to reclaim your vision, start with a Clarity Call or connect in the Facebook Group. There’s room for your truth here.
You don’t have to abandon your old story with shame. You just have to stop letting it lead.